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The Giving Tree...and the Tree that Fell from the Sky

Jim and I have always been tree lovers (at risk of being called ‘tree huggers’). And we mean that in the literal sense of word. Every house we’ve lived in, we’ve always planted a tree, or at least had a tree adventure.One of the favorite books we used to read to our sons when they were younger was The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. Regardless of how many times we read that book, I always sobbed through the very last page.

Did I mention tree adventures?

There was a giant mulberry tree at our first house in Westerly, Rhode Island. Before we moved in, it was scheduled to be cut down. Hundreds of birds sat on that tree, ate the colorful berries, and then proceeded to poop on the neighbors’ cars. It took some friendly interaction from us – followed by cooking and delivering mulberry jam every year – to save that old tree’s life.

When we bought our home in the Point section of Newport, RI, the courtyard shaded by our white lilac became the fragrance-filled gathering place for countless neighborhood get-togethers.

The apricot tree we planted in our house in Perkasie, Pennsylvania, was a source of great amusement for the neighborhood kids. When it started bearing fruit, they looked like bees working around the hive. (The Shakers had a saying about the importance of growing enough for the neighbors too!) The kiwi wasn’t as successful, but we did have some luscious-looking branches.

And then there was the gigantic weeping willow tree in our backyard in Connecticut where our sons and their friends played volleyball and basketball for days on end. There was even a mini-tornado that brought down spruce and white pines along the property border, but the weeping willow survived.

Of course, soon after moving to California, we had to plant our pomegranate and avocado trees. Our granddaughter harvested two pomegranates this past month. And there are more than a dozen still growing on the tree!

In each case, with all of the planting and occasional pruning, we’ve done our share of sweating, hard digging and constant attention. We’ve had days of pondering whether the hole was deep enough or if the soil was fertilized enough. Once we considered if we should remove a boulder three feet down. But when it's all said and done, our trees have given us so many days of fun and conversation and adventure...and an occasional piece of fruit. (-:

But this week, we got an entirely new view of how someone else approaches the job.

A house recently purchased in our neighborhood had a half dozen VERY large, mature trees and at least a dozen shrubs planted yesterday. It took the workers less than a couple of hours. And how did they get it done? Take a guess after looking closely at the photo we took from our kitchen window. We're talking about seriously large equipment! Yes, that's the mother of all cranes in the left corner.

The couple moving in undoubtedly paid a great deal of money for this lightning quick landscaping...and that's great for them. But we still prefer the memories of our own giving trees much better than the tree that fell from the sky.

A Gardening Miracle

Once upon a time, there was a strawberry plant that grew out of a pacifier!

You’re probably asking yourself, 'How is that possible?'

But it's the truth.

A year ago, our granddaughter - three years old at the time - was struggling to give up the comfort of the pacifier when she went to bed at night. Our son and daughter-in-law tried everything, but the resourceful toddler was a master negotiator. She managed to get it back every time.

One day, our daughter-in-law came up with an idea that she says she found on the Internet. The story went that when a pacifier was planted in soil, strawberry plants grew up from it.

Our granddaughter LOVES gardening. She’s the child who saves the seeds of everything she eats because she wants to plant them in the garden. And she is incredibly smart, so I think this whole scenario of going along with it was actually just to humor the parents and the grandparents. Nevertheless, she painted a clay pot as an activity, then put dirt in it and planted the pacifier two inches down. Add water.

The next morning, there was no plant yet, but miraculously, a strawberry sat on top of the soil. Much excitement ensued. So the next day and the next day for the rest of their visit with us, strawberries appeared every morning!

Good thing she wasn’t up at five am. She would have caught her father running from the fridge to the pot, arranging strawberries.

Anyway, the method worked. The pacifier habit was broken.

But once the kids went home, we couldn’t let the pacifier plant go, so we repotted the pacifier and put a strawberry plant in there. When she looks closely, she'll be able to see it in one of the holes in the new pot. And what do you know, strawberries are maturing just in time for our granddaughter’s upcoming visit.

Now how about you? What kind of unusual things have you planted in your garden?