Supportive Language with Cancer Patients

As I approach my one-year anniversary of getting diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer, I think one of the saddest statements people make to me is saying innocently, ‘You'll be fine!' Although these comments are well-intentioned, they DO often invalidate my feelings.

What I have isn't a chronic disease. It will kill me. The goal and the hope is for it someday becoming a chronic disease. But we're not there yet.

Please check out these two short and informative articles.

https://www.survivingbreastcancer.org/post/talk-with-loved-ones?postId=a364283d-fc70-425b-9aac-93595a069ccc&utm_campaign=6c296ec0-9205-4ef8-aff8-09e8689f4eb5&utm_source=so&utm_medium=mail&utm_content=9e027de3-f8ce-40df-b0a9-0c37a19a024e&cid=064092a9-796a-4f8d-834d-ae2ea30dca0e&fbclid=IwAR1rvLhp6RQnFI6tJPfHdHfy1wcz28wAi6YT0x6mZxXYtNx4jC7AeUwIz4I

https://breastcancernow.org/about-us/news-personal-stories/battling-brave-or-victim-why-language-cancer-matters

As always, posting this with love and gratitude for all your prayers and warm support.